

Benjamin Kessel
Founder - Priority Fitness CSCS USAT Level 2
Best advice I've ever received is, do not follow the crowd in life, don't follow the crowd, and what that means is, think for yourself, make decisions that are in your best interest. If you follow the crowd, your disempowering, your actions, you're not critically thinking about what's best for you. Now, if you don't follow the crowd, you can take a breath and say what decision. Do I need to make? That's in my best interest and now you're creating a sense of agency and you can make a And that's based on your own personal convictions. And once you do that, you can take responsibility for your decisions, which is one of most important things because regardless of the result of your decisions whether it's a positive or quote, unquote negative thing, You can learn and grow because you're taking responsibility or taking ownership of your actions, something that you can lose if you follow the crowd and you start blaming the crowd. Now, this advice was given for my father, quick little story about my father, born in Europe 1942 during World War Two, middle child older brother younger sister. We were Jews Escaping The Wrath of Nazi Germany. And after the war, we wouldn't my family's putting DP camps in Germany. And they came to America in 1949, my breath, my dad is 7 Soon, as he got to America became a shoeshine boy, going to bars, shining shoes 7 years old 10:00 at night and make it and making some money. And the biggest thing that he told me, besides not following the crowd, is that having the opportunity to make decisions having that freedom is a huge privilege and having the opportunity to fail and grow from that a huge privilege. And it's a shame to let that opportunity slot. So we're all For most of us who have this opportunity or incredibly lucky. You have to seize that